Why do we want to get into a relationship??
This question has been bugging me from quite some time now and I finally came round to writing something about it. Well the answer to the above question is fairly simple.
Infatuation.
We feel infatuated to the opposite sex, feel that he or she is so perfect for you and this starts the whole chain of events resulting in you "in a relationship"
Okay. So this was about relationships. But why do you want to commit to the other person.
I'm not saying go around fooling with other people and play with feelings but why commit your entire life to someone at a tender age?
Yes, A tender age. And unless and until you're over 25 or something, keep reading.
Starting from High School, people start getting together with others and commit themselves to an everlasting relationship with them. But what they don't realize is that they haven't seen anybody!!
I mean you've just seen so limited people in your life and you already feel you've found the perfect match for you?
From school, you go to college. From college you go and get a job. During college you meet so many different people.
So why commit yourself to someone when you never know your better half could still be out there just traveling on his/her path leading to you?
And even if you don't find such a perfect person, its not like you're going to abandon the others right?
So before you commit yourself to anybody, just think about this how much of life have you actually seen that you're ready to spend the remainder of yours with him.
Experience life yourself before wanting to spend it with anybody else. And think before taking a decision. Most of those don't come again.
This question has been bugging me from quite some time now and I finally came round to writing something about it. Well the answer to the above question is fairly simple.
Infatuation.
We feel infatuated to the opposite sex, feel that he or she is so perfect for you and this starts the whole chain of events resulting in you "in a relationship"
Okay. So this was about relationships. But why do you want to commit to the other person.
I'm not saying go around fooling with other people and play with feelings but why commit your entire life to someone at a tender age?
Yes, A tender age. And unless and until you're over 25 or something, keep reading.
Starting from High School, people start getting together with others and commit themselves to an everlasting relationship with them. But what they don't realize is that they haven't seen anybody!!
I mean you've just seen so limited people in your life and you already feel you've found the perfect match for you?
From school, you go to college. From college you go and get a job. During college you meet so many different people.
So why commit yourself to someone when you never know your better half could still be out there just traveling on his/her path leading to you?
And even if you don't find such a perfect person, its not like you're going to abandon the others right?
So before you commit yourself to anybody, just think about this how much of life have you actually seen that you're ready to spend the remainder of yours with him.
Experience life yourself before wanting to spend it with anybody else. And think before taking a decision. Most of those don't come again.
infatuation, love, likeness, crush never happen by themselves, they are always intentional. they act as catalyst and not as enzyme. well, age due never matter, because a star never gives a signal when it will shine the most. it never meansd to close your eyes as one can always change it's decision.... but if once the shooting star raced off.... one may not ever got it back.....
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